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When December 31st rolls around, do you bounce up and down with giddy anticipation about putting your New Year’s resolution into play? Probably not. Chances are you’re scraping the bottom of a Ben & Jerry’s pint, or taking slow-motion drags off your Marlboro to savor the last drop of gluttony. All the while, dreading the light of morning when it’s time to give it all up. But who says that a resolution has to be dreadful? Why do we think "no pain, no gain" whenever we consider making major life changes?

Here’s an idea: rather than deprive yourself of something this year, try to add something — something that will really get you bouncing up and down (literally), like some spice to your sex life. You may think you’ve got the hottest lover in town and can’t possibly get any kinkier than you did last night, but everyone can use a little deviation from the regular routine, no matter how often or how well you get at it. So, strap on those "_ _ _ _ me" boots, dust off the toys, and get ready to make it the sexiest year of your life.

1. Go high-tech. We live in a high-tech world, and high-tech sex is certainly a player. But it’s not limited to the world of www.sneakapeek (although that may get the juices flowing). Get out those high-tech toys of your own for pleasure. Sure, you can use the ones that require batteries (you know what I’m talking about), but how about your own computer and digital camera? They’re not just for trips, holidays and party shots anymore. Put those boots back on (and nothing else) and take a naughty photo that will make your lover nearly jump through the computer screen.
   
   
2. Drive in to XXX. Have you been to a drive-in lately? They’re still around, and still a great place to make your move. Instead of renting a movie and cuddling on the couch, take to the back seat of your car at a drive-in, and put a little rock in your roll till you fog up the windows.
   
   
3. Fantasy Land. Celebrate Halloween a little early this year by dressing up for Fantasyland. Don a couple of medieval costumes and get stretched on the rack, or order your sexpot nurse to get your heart rate back up. Maybe you need to "perform" your way out of a traffic ticket from Officer Hardbody. Whatever turns you on.
   
   
4. The creative streak. No, I’m not talking about running through the house naked with paintbrush in hand. But I do intend for you to put that paintbrush and nudity to use. Have your sweetheart strike a delicious pose, and bring it to life on canvas. Then bring him (or her) to life! If you’re artistically-challenged, forget the canvas. Go for performance art. Slap some body paint on one another and create an abstract, and wonderfully messy, masterpiece.
   
   
5. Make it worth the wait. They say that absence makes the heart grow fonder, well abstinence can make something else grow! Consider a waiting period, and don’t give in, even — especially —when the urge hits you, like when you catch a glimpse of the promise land when your baby bends over to pick up the laundry. A long dry spell can make for a heavy-duty thunderstorm.
   
   
6. Rush delivery. Everyone likes to receive packages, and one that gets the heart racing is the best kind. Send a Frederick’s of Hollywood number or a dangerous-looking toy to your lover at work with a note that says, "If you like this, you’ll love the directions that go with it. Come home soon."
   
   
7. Risky business. If you’re a thrill-seeker, turn things up a notch. Get busy where you’re likely to get caught. Nothing says naughty-n-nasty like a quickie in the ol’ parents’ freshly-made bed or some heavy petting in the back of a crowded movie theater (hopefully the movie won’t be the only thing with a climax).
   
   
8. Catch a peep show. Sometimes all we need is a little inspiration from those around us. Visit an exotic dance club for a little bump-and-grind inspiration. If you’re the jealous type, you may want to stay at home. If not, and you like the fact that a little erotica turns your sex kitten into a horn dog, relax, and get a rise out of the show — and your partner.
   
   
9. All talk, more action. Words are sometimes more powerful than actions, so play around with them — and each other. Phone Juliet for a game of "I’ll do you, if you’ll do me," or tease Romeo at a crowded dinner table by whispering what you’re (not) wearing under your skirt and what you plan for him to do about it!

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